How Can I Tell If I'm A Seductress?

Here is a peek into what Aphrodisian Women look like in our modern world.

You Might Be An Aphrodisian Woman If...

  • You have no trouble seducing men but may struggle with a long-term commitment 
  • When you enter a committed relationship, you miss your sexual freedom and the thrill of seducing new partners
  • You become a chameleon, changing colors to suit the desires of your lover
  • You take serious pride in your appearance as a means of self-expression
  • You have a devotion to beautiful things: art, makeup, fashion, home design, entertaining 
  • You're in your element in traditionally male-dominated environments
  • You face unexplained aggression or jealousy from women 
  • You are often accused of "trying to steal" someone's significant other, even if you are not
  • You face frequent shaming on the basis of your sexuality
  • You view sex as an artistry to master
  • You find yourself the center of attention without trying (and sometimes you like it that way)

As an unhealed Aphrodisian Woman, you may constantly feel drained. Here's why:

When we project our sexual energy randomly onto others or let them take our energy, we divert that vital force from our needs. Likewise, if we go through the day attracting other's sexual energies or being carelessly open to receiving theirs, we absorb the vibrations of those energies.

From the wrong people, sexual attraction can be dangerous, parasitic, and even deadly. Beware of energy vampires. 

Indiscriminately seeking the attention of undeserving men is a senseless and confusing way of being. If you become dependent on absorbing male energies in this way, you will increasingly lose your sense of self. But you can acquire the tools to discern the potential for love from lust.

If you have been really deeply wounded by romantic partners, you may:

  • use manipulation tactics to gain control over men or to exact revenge on them for perceived wrongs
  • exploit perceived weaknesses or vulnerabilities in men to achieve your goals, such as money, attention, devotion, or submission
  • isolate men from their social circles, friends, or support networks as a way of weakening them or causing them distress
  • lie or cheat on them without guilt because you are so cynical about man's ability to be faithful or honest
  • engage in public shaming tactics, such as spreading rumors or sharing personal information, to humiliate or damage the reputation of men she feels wronged by
  • resort to physical harm or destroying their valuables as a form of revenge
  • withhold affection, intimacy, or emotional support from men as a way of punishing them

Once your healing is finished, you'll no longer feel the need to use these defensive techniques. 

Do I Have to Be Beautiful to Be A Seductress?

    With all this talk about being a goddess of seduction and beauty, you may assume that Aphrodisian Women are conventionally pretty. However, this is not always the case.

    Many Aphrodisian Women are not conventionally beautiful; in fact, they may have detracting aspects to their appearance.

    The seduction that we are referring to here extends far beyond mere appearance.

    A great example of such a woman is Cleopatra, the prototype of the femme fatale. Modern historians such as Grace Macurdy, Michel Grant, and Stanley Burstein all claim that Cleopatra was not exceptionally attractive by ancient or contemporary standards.

    Cleopatra is considered Aphrodisian because of her charisma and seductive spirit. When Marc Antony first summoned her, she sailed up to him under a canopy of gold cloth dressed as Aphrodite. Accounts say that she had dipped her sails in perfume so the suitor could smell her scent as she made her way down the river. 

    Another example of an unconventionally beautiful seductress is Mexican painter Frida Kahlo, who was infamous for her unibrow and injured back, which was severely maimed during a bus accident. In contemporary readings of her life, she was considered a compelling sex symbol who had seduced numerous men and women in the upper crust of 1940s society.

    Seduction is not just about beauty; it's about much more. 

As a point of reference, here are some real (and imagined) world examples of Aphrodisian Women. 

Historical Icons of Lust:

Lady Godiva
Bonnie of Bonnie and Clyde
Helen of Troy [see image]
Mata Hari
Anaïs Nin
Frida Khalo

Goddesses of the Silver Screen:

Mae West
Marilyn Monroe
Brigitte Bardot
Sophia Loren
Elizabeth Taylor
Joan Rivers
Vivien Leigh

Contemporary Starlets:

Sydney Sweeney 
Pamela Anderson
Miley Cyrus
Anna Nicole Smith
Angelina Jolie [see image]
Salma Hayek
Sharon Stone
Jennifer Lawrence
Sofia Vergara
Amy Schumer
Natasha Lyonne
Dita Von Teese
Whitney Houston

Literary & Film Examples:

Jessica Rabbit (Who Framed Roger Rabbit)
Lynn Bracken (LA Confidential)
Katherina (Shakespeare’s Taming Of The Shrew)
Midge Maisel (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel)
Salome (Old Testament) [see image]
Catwoman (DC Comics)
Blanche (A Streetcar Named Desire) [see image]
Harley Quinn (DC Comics
Joan Hollaway (Mad Men)